I'll be the bitch in this and tell you I do what I want. The family either understands or not. *shrug* I'm too old to dance to other people's music. Yeah, I get comments but it's my life, not theirs. If people are willing to cut me out or off because of my own decisions, then obviously they care more about themselves than me anyway. I'm not rude about it or mean, I just say no, thanks and don't offer more to justify decisions I make. I don't have to have another appointment either. But I said I was a bitch, right? *g*

(My aunts tend to give me the hairy eyeball but I smile and kiss them and do what I please.)