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lolabobs ([personal profile] lolabobs) wrote2011-01-31 12:38 am
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I also has significantly less chocolates than I started the weekend with, but I won't tell if you won't.

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I was talking on Wednesday with a friend about reading - and he said that he always read the ending of books before he started reading them, as he couldn't cope emotionally if there was an unhappy ending. He did this always, and, if reading a series of books and one he reads has an unhapy event he skips the next book(s) in the series - as an example: a character's partner died in one series, he missed out the next two published books until he thought it would be safe to read another.

This boggled me - I can understand people liking spoilers, and I know when my Mum read Mills and Boon she would read the last chapter to see how sappy it was (which we as a family welcomed as it limited the amount of times a book went flying across the front room when she became exasperated!), I just find it hard to imagine being so vulnerable that you can't cope with a less than blissful happy ending.

For me, part of reading a book for the first time is that whole 'not knowing what's going to happen' the tense anxiety or anticipation, the 'I can't put the book down till I know ' experience. And while I will reread a book over and over, I want that first time experience unsullied!

What do other people think? Do? Like I said, I can understand the 'tease' of spoilers and anticipating how they will appear/play out, but to know the ending fully? I'm genuinely interested in your thoughts.

[identity profile] lydia-petze.livejournal.com 2011-01-31 05:56 am (UTC)(link)
I am with you on this. I am so about the story unfolding that I actually get a bit irritated when I see people spoiling themsleves. I KNOW that's stupid of me, but can't they see they're ruining it?

[identity profile] lolabobs.livejournal.com 2011-02-05 02:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Heh, A few people have talked about the emotional stresses involved and not being able to deal with a 'bad' ending and although I can understand that academically and try and be empathic - the heart of me is just standing there saying "yes, but...."

I love the whole experience, the anxieties that arise when something is looking bad, the relief when it doesn't,or the emotional reaction if it does - an integral, all important part of the process for me.