{{HUGS}} From everything I ever read about your daddy in this journal, he was *not* the kind of person who would've wanted you to be so paralyzed with grief that you couldn't enjoy being alive *yourself*. He would have wanted you to draw strength from your friends, and find joy in life again, and open up your heart, and heal, and **live**, by god. If your aunt doesn't get that, she's an incredibly pathetic person, so pathetic, in fact, that she doesn't deserve our anger; she deserves our *pity*. My god. I'm ecstatic and PROUD that you were able to enjoy a night with your friend. Bless you. Do NOT give that woman a minute more of your time on this issue. {{MORE HUGS}}