Your aunt needs to be so phenomenally ignored. I can never quite get over how judgemental and knowing and just plain wrong people can be on the topic of other people's grief and what it means and how it's expressed. It's so enormously no-one else's business. Just to reiterate, though you already know, it's absolutely fine to go out, to have fun, to do what you feel like doing, and we know just how much you miss him.
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Date: 2012-04-01 07:36 am (UTC)